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How To Get A Guy To Like You

The dating game can sometimes become stressful and unpleasant, especially when you don’t get what you are looking for. There is a truth behind dating, and the information revealed below will make guys fall for you.

Patience is and always has been the key

Getting a guy to recognize you is hard work, unless you are patient. You can not risk making the first move because its unusual. You don’t want to wait because you fear he might find someone else. Be patient but become part of his daily life. Make sure he sees you in one way or the other. The more times he sees you, the better your chances will be. This is more like the concept of subliminal massaging.

The cat and mouse theory of dating

In nature we all know the mouse is the prey and the cat is the predator. However, in dating the theory is quiet the opposite. Many women rely too much on men to make the move. Keep a frequent but undetectable eye on him. Eventually there will be a bit of eye contact between the two of you. He will then keep his eyes on you to see if there is more. The second eye contact should seal the deal. He will have no choice but to walk up to you.

Laying down the right foundation

Now that he is coming your way, do not let your excitement get the best of you. Start with a brief smile to invite him in for a conversation. The poor guy is probably a wreck at this stage, so give him a break and allow his hero instinct to kick by using welcoming phrases. This should allow the both of you to start on the same plane. If you are open for a conversation, he is willing to initiate it.

Lure him to you web and keep him hooked

Most guys just go with what they seen. Even if he did come to you, sometimes his motive is unclear. It is then your responsibility to let him realize why he came. Pay attention to him, make him feel like he is the prince and you are a beautiful villager seeking love. Once he thinks that he’s got you hooked, he will then decide whether to ask you out or confess his intentions to you.

Submission and withdrawal

Surely that does not tie the knot, does it? There is still one more thing to do ladies. Leave him asking for more. Quit while the conversation is still at its peak. So make some excuse to leave but assure him that you would like to finish the conversation. This is also risky but if all you cards are lined up correctly, he should suggest a means to communicate. So leave him your contact and disappear.

There is no real guide to follow in dating. However, there are a few things one can try, why not add these to your inventory? Who knows, one of them might actually make a guy fall for you.